Last updated: 13 January 2026
This Refunds & Cancellations Policy explains how cancellations, no-shows, refunds, and payouts work on Ourly.
Ourly is a marketplace that facilitates paid one-to-one conversations between users. Ourly does not provide the conversation itself and is not a party to the agreement formed between users.
"Payer": the user who makes the payment for a meeting.
"Recipient": the user who accepts the offer and is paid to attend the meeting.
"Service fee": the Ourly platform service fee (currently £2.49).
"No-show": where a user does not join the meeting within 15 minutes of the scheduled start time.
Either user may cancel a meeting at any time up to the scheduled start time.
If a meeting is cancelled by either user before it starts:
If a meeting is scheduled and the Recipient does not join the meeting within 15 minutes of the scheduled start time, the meeting is treated as a Recipient no-show.
In the event of a Recipient no-show:
If the Payer does not join the meeting within 15 minutes but the Recipient does attend:
Attendance is determined using platform-level join signals and meeting metadata, including logs generated when users follow Ourly meeting links and available meeting attendance metadata.
If both users attend the meeting and the meeting takes place:
This includes dissatisfaction with:
Conversations are provided by users to one another at their own discretion and risk.
At this time, rescheduling is not supported once a meeting has been accepted.
Before accepting an offer, a Recipient may propose amended dates or times. Once accepted, a meeting may only be cancelled in accordance with this policy and, if desired, rebooked as a new meeting.
Approved refunds are typically processed within 3–5 business days.
The time taken for funds to appear back in a user's account may vary depending on the payment provider and bank.
Recipients may be required to complete Stripe Connect Express onboarding before receiving payouts.
Once eligible and released, payouts typically arrive in 3–5 business days, depending on Stripe and the Recipient's bank.
We may delay, withhold, or reverse payouts where reasonably necessary to:
We reserve the right to suspend or restrict accounts where we reasonably believe there is:
If a Payer initiates a chargeback or payment dispute through their bank or card provider:
If you believe a refund decision is incorrect, please contact us at admin@ourly.uk with: